Bela and BVB

My daughter is a devoted fan of Black Veil Brides.  Andy is one of her many favorites.  She somehow found an address for his parents.  Before Christmas, she sent a fan letter to the address hoping it would reach Andy Biersack.  When I checked the mail today, a letter from Andy’s mom, Amy, was waiting for her.  It was so cool—it even had a Batman stamp!  Bela saw the stamp peeking out from under the rest of the mail and said, “Whoever sent that letter with the Batman stamp is the coolest person ever!”  I chuckled to myself since I already knew who sent it.

Bela was ecstatic when she opened the envelope!  I would like to thank Amy for her kind response.  It made Bela’s day!

Check out the cool stamp!

Check out the cool stamp!

 

Bela is already wearing one of the tattoos.

Bela is already wearing one of the tattoos.

 

Andy.....

Andy…..

Amy wrote such a sweet response!

Amy wrote such a sweet response!

2014—Thank You to My Readers!

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2014 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

A San Francisco cable car holds 60 people. This blog was viewed about 3,000 times in 2014. If it were a cable car, it would take about 50 trips to carry that many people.

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I want to take this opportunity to thank all of my readers.  My first year of blogging was awesome because of you!

Write It Down!

In my second job, I spend a lot of time at the local nursing home.  Yesterday I took time to ask a resident about her teaching career.  We ended up talking about kids then and now, and she told me a couple of stories about her students and her own children.  I enjoyed talking to her, but I still had some work to do.  I will go back soon; hopefully I can get some of her stories written down so they won’t be lost with the passing of time.  The stories of our elders are full of wisdom and humor.

I wish I had taken the time to write down stories from my grandparents before they were gone forever.  Nanny and Pawpie sure did a lot of living.  Grandma could have told some interesting stories as well.  Hindsight is 20/20, so please take my advice so you won’t make my mistake.  With the technology available today, you can have videos of your loved ones telling stories themselves.  Just imagine if I had been able to take videos of my grandparents.  My grandchildren and great-grandkids would have been able to not only see the people I loved and lost, but they would have been able to hear their voices!  What a gift!

For those of you with young children, I also say: Write things down!  (Laura and Keith, I am thinking of you when I give this advice!)  One day your memory will dim, and you will be confused as to which kid said what!  Trust me because I have already had it happen to me!  (I’m only 47, for crying out loud!)  In this day and age, there’s no reason not to document family gatherings, stories and memories of the people we love.

Lena could have told some great stories.

Lena could have told some great stories.

Christmas for the Girls?

I saw a Facebook post this morning about the kidnapped Nigerian girls.  They have been gone for 255 days.  I can’t envision them opening presents today, can you?

My daughter and I have enjoyed our Christmas, but what about the families of those young girls?  How would I feel if one of those girls belonged in my family?  I’m sure I would have a major shift in priorities; wouldn’t you?  The missing school girls are not just Nigeria’s daughters; these daughters belong to the world.  I have followed the news stories, but there is no resolution.  I don’t know about you, but every time I think of these children, I cringe because I know what has probably been done to them.  As horrible as it is to contemplate, the “soldiers” of Boko Haram didn’t kidnap these daughters of ours for a stroll in the park.  Make no mistake—this kidnapping was an attack against women and decent people all over the world.  Don’t be deceived into believing the males of Boko Haram are real men either.  They are not!  Real men don’t prey on defenseless children.  Real men do not assault or threaten a female for any reason.  The Boko Haram is composed of cowards.

If I could make my voice heard, I would tell our captive daughters this:

Don’t give up!  Do whatever is necessary to survive.  People are still praying for you and awaiting your return.  You should feel no shame; the shame belongs to your captors.  They are cowards.  You, my daughters, are brave.

http://www.cbsnews.com/news/still-no-trace-of-200-kidnapped-girls-in-nigeria/

http://www.latimes.com/world/africa/la-fg-report-kidnapped-nigerian-girls-20141026-story.html

http://www.foxnews.com/world/2014/07/22/11-parents-nigeria-kidnapped-girls-die-from-attacks-and-stress-hometown-is/

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-11-02/boko-haram-leader-claims-kidnapped-girls-have-been-married-off/5860332

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-05-12/nigerian-girl-who-escaped-boko-haram-speaks-publicly-of-ordeal/5446168

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2011-11-06/what-is-nigeria27s-boko-haram3f/3637796

http://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/british/soft-target

http://allafrica.com/stories/201409250559.html

http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2014/12/girl-says-father-gave-her-boko-haram-20141225162449466569.html

Learning Time is Any Time

How many fun, learning opportunities have you and your kids missed out on due to work and school schedules?  Are your children interested in things not commonly taught in a  school curriculum?  Do they want to do internships or apprenticeships to learn a trade?  Homeschooling may be the answer for you.

The first step is to check your state’s regulations.  If you like what you see, you can prepare yourself and your child(ren) to take the next step.  You will face challenges and negativity along the way, so be armed with research to back up your position when you take your child(ren) out of school.  Many well-meaning, intelligent people are not educated about the differences between socializing and socialization, just to name one issue.  If you have done your research and feel confident homeschooling is the best option for your family, stand firm.  Some will ask about “gaps” in your child’s education.  One way to make a point is to ask the concerned questioner what s/he remembers from school.  That should take care of that.

Children can learn anywhere.  Sitting around a table or at a desk with peers does not guarantee learning.  The first rule of learning is that the information must be meaningful to the student(s).  Since I teach Spanish, let me use that as an example.  Is it necessary for all students to speak Spanish?  No.  Do I think it is an important skill?  Of course!  Could it become meaningful to a student later?  Absolutely.  Many times schools set requirements that do not fit all students, but it’s done to make sure our students have a well-rounded education.  Fair enough, but all students will not find the information I have to share as important as I do.  They may not ever need to speak Spanish.  According to school requirements, however, they must pass the class if they wish to graduate.  What if a student wants to learn Arabic or French or any other language the school doesn’t offer?  As a homeschooled student, any foreign language could count toward graduation.  Schools are sometimes limited by funding and teachers, but a homeschooled student can find resources online or at a community college to fit interests and life goals.  In Nebraska, there are Lakota-speaking people.  It is even offered at the community college.  For my daughter, this is a meaningful class.  It will also be her third language!  She is already fluent in English and Spanish.  Using her as an example, would sitting in my Spanish class for a year be meaningful?  I don’t think so!

Now picture her as a homeschooled student.  She can learn a third language that is meaningful to her and relevant to where we live.  Most parents and teachers will agree that we want well-rounded, life-long learners.  Put that in plain language: we hope students will want to learn new things forever while having a broad base of information.  If students feel “trapped” in a classroom with peers they do not like, how are we planning to accomplish that goal?  Creativity doesn’t have to be sucked out of learning; it can still be fun.  Some of us have forgotten what it’s like to be creative and have fun while still providing opportunities to learn.  Homeschooling can do that!

Ideas for learning opportunities are everywhere.  Surround yourself with intelligent professionals who can teach you and your child new skills.  An internship of two weeks can teach more than a quarter in a class if the learner is motivated and the knowledge is meaningful.  I have a friend who owns a bakery, another raises goats and chickens.  Either friend could certainly impart information to my child.  Will I give them a chance?  You bet!  If my child shows an interest in something, I will seek a way to provide information!

I am trying to pay attention to my daughter’s passions.  She loves to sing and write songs.  I support that, so I bought her a guitar.  She was invited to a cosmetology school’s open house.  She was interested, so I took a day off to get her there.  Yesterday my daughter danced for an hour just because she wanted to.  If she dances several times a week, that certainly could be called physical education!  Good for her!  That’s the beginning of her homeschool journey.  I can’t wait to see how her passions develop now that she has the freedom to explore.  She is no longer limited by a school schedule.  Learning time for her is any time.

Learning time?

Learning time?

Oreo

Oreo is a fine equine family member.  I try to make sure she is well cared for.  I knew her hooves needed a trim, but finding a farrier who was available proved tricky.  Good news, though—we finally had her hooves trimmed today!  Willie was running ahead of schedule, so the job was done when we got there.  I was stressing because I was thinking he was running late, but he had been waiting on me!  That rarely happens because I am usually on time.

Oreo was thrilled to get some grain and loving.  As you can tell, she obviously hasn’t been hurting for groceries.

Oreo makes sure to get the last little bit of food.

Oreo makes sure to get the last little bit of food.

oreo2

That’s All, Folks!

Quitting time for this year (sounds awesome!) finally rolled around.  I was as happy as the students!  It sounds wonderful to say that we don’t go back until next year!  We were all ready for the break.

Now I am happily sitting at home in front of my computer eating some chocolate.  I am being watched intently by several cats and dogs.  (None for them!)  Criminal Minds is on, and I have a book at hand.  What joy I feel!  This is as warm and fuzzy as it gets for me.

Ysabela had a headache today, so she went home right before lunch.  She was able to complete her scavenger hunt for her first Christmas gift before she left.  I had her gift hidden in plain sight in the art room.  When I got home two hours later, she was strumming her new guitar.  Her headache had eased some, but it came back.  She ended up tucking her guitar away and taking a long nap.  The dogs were guarding her and keeping her warm, so I let them all rest.

The breaks from school are all about rest, at least to me.  It’s a time to slow down, unwind and refocus to get ready for what lies ahead.  Maybe teachers and students alike will be recharged for the second half of the school year.

Merry Christmas to all…….