Ugly Anniversary

I usually keep personal business out of my blog, but today is different.  Today marks a month since my soul mate/life partner was murdered far away from me and Ysabela.  The ugliness of what happened has haunted me, and I spent the day thinking about what (and who) I have lost.  I know Ysabela lost someone dear to her, too.

At the end of every conversation with her daddy, I always promised him that I would take care of our girl no matter what.  When she asked if we could go to the mall and a movie today after I finished work, I consulted my check book, inwardly groaned and said, “Sure!  Let’s go!”

A promise is a promise, and my girl needed a day of fun whether I wanted to leave the house or not.  It was nice to see Bela have a good shopping day (more about that later) and hear her belly laugh about the movie.  I realized that no matter how tough things are, kids still need to have fun.  It’s my job to make it happen.

Cosplay?

My daughter, Ysabela, has decided she wants to do some cosplay.  After she explained it all to me, I thought it might be fun for her.  I wondered if we’d find any cosplay fun within driving distance, so she started looking.  We discovered that there’s a cosplay event (O Comic Con) in Council Bluffs (Iowa) at the end of May, so we are planning to go.  Once she won that battle, she insisted that I dress up as well.

I don’t think I can find an appealing outfit that is flattering for my body type.  It’s that simple!  I mean, I’m in shape (if you count round as a shape!), but I do not want to wear anything that is very “form fitting.”  I like my clothes to cover, not outline.  I liked the Avatar face makeup, but the clothes are not my style.  After that, things went down hill.  I have given up on finding an outfit that I can—and will—wear.

As far as I’m concerned, we will have enough to do with ordering fabric, making Bela’s pants (with help from someone who knows how to do it!), finding the perfect purple shirt, buying her must-have boots and ordering the top hat.  I think cosplay=money.  🙂  It should be a fun experience anyway, though.  We’re both looking forward to going.  Everyone will have the opportunity to walk the red carpet and have photos taken.  It’ll be nice to get out of town for a few days and relax.

Semi-Wordless Wednesday

Bela was grooming our Maine Coon, Jersey, a very laid back feline (usually).  At first Jersey was enjoying herself, but Bela hit a snag; then things got real.  Jersey was offended by the tug of the brush, so she started “talking.”  She was not nice, but she was quite funny.  You’ve never been told off until a Maine Coon chews you out.

Bela was laughing at sassy Jersey.

Bela was laughing at sassy Jersey.

Jersey is a big girl.

Jersey is a big girl.

State Shoot!

Bela was not interested in being photographed, but I managed to snap a few pics anyway.  I am proud of her because today’s state shoot was only her second competition.  She’s been practicing, of course, but a meet is totally different.  The kids in her age group have been shooting air rifles for years, and Bela started in February.

Bela was bobbing and weaving to avoid the camera.

Bela was bobbing and weaving to avoid the camera.

Our club shirts look awesome.

Our club shirts look awesome.

Don’t Wait!

Our community has had so many unexpected deaths lately that it feels like we are in perpetual mourning.  I wonder how many more tears must be shed before we can heal.

From my perspective, I must offer some advice to those who have not yet been touched by tragedy.  Pay attention.  You don’t want to live with regrets.

Don’t wait to take that “special” vacation with loved ones.  Travel when you can.  Thinking you have all the time in the world is a huge mistake.  Nobody is guaranteed tomorrow.  One thing we all know for sure is that nobody gets out of life alive.

If someone needs a hug from you, give it happily.  They may not ask again.  I know sometimes I get in a hurry, but my Ysabela opens her arms for a hug.  I hug her.  What if she never asks again?

Special occasions happen daily.  Did you get up this morning?  Victory!  Wear your best jewelry!  Use the fine china for supper!  You don’t need a reason to celebrate life.

Work hard for what you want out of life.  Play hard, too.  There’s a time and place for everything.

If you feel like you want to get to know someone better, make the effort.  Next week may be too late to grab a cup of coffee with him or her.

Don’t wait to live your life.  Putting things on hold will haunt you.

 

 

It Started Innocently Enough

My friend, Laura, said to try “wearing” our dog.  She tried it in self defense because her new dog kept getting under her feet.  Bela took her advice, and this is what happened.

This happens every day.

This happens every day.

 

Purrful was fine after she figured out what was happening.

Purrful was fine after she figured out what was happening.

Jinx wasn't so impressed.

Jinx wasn’t so impressed.

What self-respecting cat would sit still for this?

What self-respecting cat would sit still for this?

Chance was feeling the love!

Chance was feeling the love!

 

 

National Language Service Corps

In my quest to do something different, I signed up with the National Language Service Corps.  I learned about NLSC at the ACTFL conference in San Antonio in November.  The rep knew her business, and I was hooked on the idea of using my language skills in volunteer situations (in or out of the United States).

When I got home after the conference, I visited the website and filled out an application.  I had to provide detailed information about my language skills, of course, and documentation as requested.  Fortunately, I had already taken the OPI exam, so I knew my language competency, and I provided a copy of the results.  I think it’s awesome (and smart!) that additional training is provided if an assignment is given.  It’s also nice to be able to accept or reject assignments based on work schedules and other things.  After all of my information was verified, I was accepted as a member.

I love having a certificate to add to my portfolio!

I love having a certificate to add to my portfolio!

If you speak a second (or third) language, please check out the NLSC.  You could be a bridge between cultures.

http://www.nlscorps.org/Default.aspx