Travel!

Writing Challenge

Writing Challenge


Today’s writing challenge topic: Have you ever taken a trip by yourself? Do you prefer to travel with people or alone?

I have done both. I don’t mind going alone. That’s what happened when I scheduled a trip to Costa Rica when I was in college. None of my friends had the money or the determination to make the trip, but I planned for a year to be able to go. It was an amazing adventure. (My mom calls me a daredevil!) I met a very nice man (Eduardo) on the plane who got us a taxi when we landed while I guarded the luggage. I hadn’t made hotel reservations, so Eduardo told the driver where I needed to be. I asked for “cheap and clean.” The hotel was in the Zona Rosa (red light district), but it was fine. I felt safe there because Pancho (clerk/receptionist) always kept an eye out for my safety. He wouldn’t let me go out alone even though I thought I was perfectly capable of protecting myself. He would find out where I wanted to go and search for another guest going the same place. I remember playing cards with Pancho and two other guests almost every night. One guest spoke Greek, Arabic and some English, another spoke Albanian and some Greek, Pancho spoke only Spanish. Luckily, I completed the circle with English and Spanish. The Albanian guy would say something in Greek which was translated into English. I then would tell Pancho what was going on. If it was a joke, the guys waited for the final translation before they laughed.

I have traveled with my older daughter. When she was about 10, we went to Puerto Rico for a week. We had a great time (if you don’t count an ear infection from the pool). We both learned a lot on that trip. It was memorable also because one of my very best pals “decided” to have a heart attack while my back was turned! I was ready to get on a flight home, but she was well enough to tell me to stay in Puerto Rico and come home as scheduled.

Judy!

Judy!

My older daughter went with me to Mexico. It was a difficult trip in many ways since she was a teen at the time. A teacher friend accompanied us with her granddaughter. I had invited a student along to round out the group. (His Spanish skills improved so much that week!)

My younger daughter and I have a trip planned to Europe within the next couple of years. Since we lived in Mexico for about five years, she is comfortable in the Mexican culture. Her Spanish is better than mine. We speak the language, so Spain should be awesome!

I can travel comfortably alone or with others. I would prefer to travel with people I know, but when we sign up to be part of a tour group, getting to know fellow travelers is part of the adventure. I jokingly tell people I can be packed in 10 minutes. I’m not really kidding, though!

The Chicken Chick

Alone or Lonely? Huge Difference!

Writing Challenge

Writing Challenge


Today’s writing challenge question: Do you enjoy being alone? What do you do when you’re by yourself?

I love easy questions. I enjoy and savor solitude. I can usually be found with my nose in a book if I have spare time.

Many people confuse being alone with being lonely. I know the difference. It’s possible to feel lonely in a crowded room. It’s about the connections between people. If I am not emotionally connected to the people in the crowded room, I could feel lonely. (Admittedly, I rarely put myself in the position of being in crowds since I prefer being at home.)

I think I’m lucky because I enjoy my time alone. My own company is just fine with me. With pets in the home, it’s never lonely anyway. I consider them family members. Some people never learn that being alone is preferable to keeping bad company.

Something Missing

I got home yesterday, drank some coffee and caught up on some grad class reading for an assignment that’s coming due soon. All evening long, I felt like I was missing something. I realized that I hadn’t even booted up the computer. Then it hit me: I had not posted on my blog! I am rectifying that error right now!

Writing Challenge

Writing Challenge

The topic: What is my favorite personality trait that I possess? That is EASY: sense of humor! It has saved me from blowing my stack many times. Things go south quickly when I lose my ability to laugh. We all know it’s better to laugh than cry, right?

She LIVES!

Almost 12 hours after getting home from the after-Prom party, the princess is UP. I swear she fell asleep mid-sentence early this morning. (I picked her up around 4:30.) I staggered into the kitchen for coffee about 11:30, put the dogs out and back in to guard my Sleeping Beauty.

Shhhh!

Shhhh!

Princess Ysabela enjoyed a “breakfast” of waffles and bacon and savored the memory of choosing her new Blu-ray disc player as a prize at the end of the after-Prom party. I would like to thank all the parents and community members who worked so many hours to make the party a roaring success. As far as I know, the Bronco Boosters coordinated the event.

a great prize!

a great prize!

pointing out the port for a USB!

pointing out the port for a USB!

Prom=Stress

The Chicken Chick

All the hype about Prom—is it really worth it? Girls and their parents spend so much for so little, really. Dresses and shoes, of course, are usually expensive. Then there’s a corsage to buy, pictures, hair, makeup, nails, etc. Add in a dose of anxiety about finding a suitable date, and I have to wonder if it’s really worth it. Let me tell you about my experience.

I was so lucky to find a discounted dress at Deb’s in Grand Island last October. It was on sale for about $25. I saw a tiny flaw on the breast and brought it to the cashier’s attention. I received an additional 55% off! HALLELUJAH! Imagine my glee in spending so little for a PROM DRESS! (Sorry to shout, but it was exciting.) Getting Princess Ysabela’s hair done cost me $25 (thank you, Lisa), and a wrist corsage was a little over $17 (thank you, Lynn). Momma was rocking, right? Go me! Anyway, I thought I was rocking too. As I mentally patted myself on the back, I noticed my princess was manifesting signs of stress. Stress? Why ever would that be? How do I know?

Ysabela was smiling, but her silver shoes became her focus once she got to the gym. She complained that they hurt her feet. I suspect that was simply a symptom of insecurity and nerves. It makes sense. Like a guest speaker at school said, “Kids walk on stage and perform every time they enter the school.” I had never thought of high school like that. If I view Prom in the same light, no wonder Ysabela was using her shoes as a focal point for her nerves! It was easier than admitting to herself (or me) that she was feeling insecure. Oh, teen angst! It’s a battle we all must fight—and hopefully win.

Is the stress worth it? Prom is an important event in a teen’s life. As a parent, I think we need to be vigilant and do something if we notice our children’s stress levels escalating. I, for one, will pay close attention to my daughter’s clues, both verbal and nonverbal.

Princess Ysabela

Princess Ysabela

My Dream–World Domination

As a new blogger, I have been cautioned against stressing over my blog’s stats. As a hard-headed woman, I let that advice go in one ear and out the other. (Some days there’s nothing in between to stop it anyway.) I love seeing places lit up on my map. Various days have shown readers in Singapore, Greece, Saudi Arabia and Mexico. Some visited from New Zealand and the UK. I’m thrilled to have them read a bit on my humble blog. Some days I feel like blogging is similar to putting a note in a bottle, corking it and throwing it into the ocean!

My dream is to have readers from every country. Preferably on the same day so my world is lit up on the stats page! If you enjoy something you’ve read on my blog, repost my link. If you have friends (inside or) outside my home country (US), send them a link to my ramblings. Go wild! And thank you. 🙂

Feel free to leave me a comment. I always read (and respond) to the ones that make it past the spam filter.
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If

Writing Challenge

Writing Challenge


If I could change one thing about myself what would it be? That’s another good question. If….maybe I would change my ratio of muscle to fat. 🙂 I would like to be in better shape. I catch myself thinking about walking a few blocks, then I get tired and think: Round is a shape…..
Round is a shape, so I am IN SHAPE!

Round is a shape, so I am IN SHAPE!


That reminds me of the time I told Ysabela, “I’m going out to the yard to stand. If anyone calls for me, tell them I am OUTSTANDING.”

Good Question

Writing Challenge

Writing Challenge


Do I do more for myself or for others? I am not sure, actually. I do a few things for myself. I work a second job, but I don’t sign up for more hours than necessary. Sometimes I feel selfish, especially if I’m asked to work a shift and I just don’t want to work. I am so tired and mentally drained that I need my evenings to get it together for the next school day! I have a house to run and a teenager to parent. I make sure I have coffee in the house, too. (I do that for myself AND my child!) Grad classes take up more of my time and energy, but I’m doing that to increase my earnings to benefit my family. I am a workaholic (I think) because it feels great to be able to buy what my daughter needs without counting change. I love learning new things, but I get bored really fast! Then I move on to the next challenge. I keep learning stuff for ME!

I do things for others when I can. Animal rescue is important to me. My pets have all been adopted or otherwise rescued. I donate money to the Rodeo Club at school, and I have had a collection tub for items that went to foster kids. My students are good about putting things in for the foster kids. My classes have adopted soldiers, and I send coupons to deployed families as often as possible. I have spent time working as a CNA and a foster parent. (I found out that fostering is not for me.) I’m on the volunteer fire department as well. Is that sufficient?

I guess we all do what we can when we can. I just hope that’s enough.

Benjamin Franklin said…

“There are three things extremely hard: steel, a diamond, and to know one’s self.” Do you think you know yourself well? That is today’s topic for the BlogHer Writing Challenge.

Writing Challenge

Writing Challenge

This question is really easy for me to answer. YES! It has taken me a long time to be comfortable in my own skin. I am (painfully) aware of my strengths and my weaknesses. For all of you who are still struggling with knowing yourself, I can say with confidence—give yourself some time. You’ll get there.
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